What is the most beneficial way to reward your children?
Buy them a new toy? Allow them to stay up later? Let them watch a special TV show?
These may or may not have positive effects, but none of them can compare with the undivided attention of a parent.
Older children may deny that they require attention from their parents; however, it is possible to see the impact extra attention can have. With younger children, the results are often visible straight away. They respond with smiles and can be encouraged to try new things. Eventually you may notice an increase in your childโs self-esteem as they grow older.
ๅ ๅฎใฎๆ
ๅญไพใซใจใฃใฆไธ็ช
ๅฑใฟใซใชใใฎใฏไฝใใใจๆใใพใ
ๆฐใใใใใกใใ่ฒทใฃใฆใใใใ?้ ใใพใฆใ่ตทใใฆใใใใจ ใ่ชใใ?็นๅฅใชใใฌใใ็ช็ตใ่ฆใใใฆใใใใ?
ใใใใใคใณใปใณใใฃใใใใๅนๆ็ใใจใใใใฏใใฆใใใใ ใใใใ่ฆชใใๅญไพใซใใฃใใ็ฎใๅใใใใจใจใฏๆฏใธใใใใ ใใใพใใใ
ๅญ ไพใฏๅคงใใใชใใจใ่ฆชใใ่ชๅใซๆณจ็ฎใใใใจใๆใใใ ใใใพใใใใใใใ่ฆชใฎๆณจ็ฎใฏๅฟ ใใๅนๆใใใใใใพใใ ๅญไพใใๅฐใใใใฏใใใใฎ็ตๆใฏในใใฌใผใใซ็พใใพใใๅญ ไพใฏ็ฌ้กใ่ฆใใๆฐใใใใจใซๆๆฆใใใใจใใใฆใใใใใ ๅญไพใใๅคงใใใชใใฏใใๅญไพใฎ่ชๅฐๅฟใฎ้ซใพใใใๆใใใใใ ใใใใใพใใใ
What is the most beneficial way to reward your children?
Buy them a new toy? Allow them to stay up later? Let them watch a special TV show?
These may or may not have positive effects, but none of them can compare with the undivided attention of a parent.
Older children may deny that they require attention from their parents; however, it is possible to see the impact extra attention can have. With younger children, the results are often visible straight away. They respond with smiles and can be encouraged to try new things. Eventually you may notice an increase in your childโs self-esteem as they grow older.
Self-esteem is what we build in our children when we give them the attention they require. However, it is important to give children quality attention; just being around your child is not considered quality attention.
Letโs look at some examples. A Mom takes her kids to the movies with a friend and her children. When the movie is over, the Mom and her friend discuss the movie as the kids are left on their own. Even though Mom is with her children physically, she is not there emotionally. How could it have been different? Mom and her friend could have asked the kids for their opinions on the movie. The children would then have been involved in the conversation and noticed that they were the focus of their parentโs attention.
A Dad takes his son to sports practice. While watching the practice, it is tempting to socialize with other parents. But, he must be aware that as children practice, they look to see if their parent(s) are watching what they are doing and they want their parents to focus their attention on them. It is so easy to get distracted by other adults who are enjoying engaging in conversation. One way to focus your attention back to your child without being rude is to direct the attention of the other parents to their own children. While your child is not the only subject of your attention, by giving attention to your child, it will be gratifying to note the elation that you will see on his or her face. tj
ๅ ๅฎใฎๆ
ๅญไพใซใจใฃใฆไธ็ช
ๅฑใฟใซใชใใฎใฏไฝใใใจๆใใพใ
ๆฐใใใใใกใใ่ฒทใฃใฆใใใใ?้ ใใพใฆใ่ตทใใฆใใใใจ ใ่ชใใ?็นๅฅใชใใฌใใ็ช็ตใ่ฆใใใฆใใใใ?
ใใใใใคใณใปใณใใฃใใใใๅนๆ็ใใจใใใใฏใใฆใใใใ ใใใใ่ฆชใใๅญไพใซใใฃใใ็ฎใๅใใใใจใจใฏๆฏใธใใใใ ใใใพใใใ
ๅญ ไพใฏๅคงใใใชใใจใ่ฆชใใ่ชๅใซๆณจ็ฎใใใใจใๆใใใ ใใใพใใใใใใใ่ฆชใฎๆณจ็ฎใฏๅฟ ใใๅนๆใใใใใใพใใ ๅญไพใใๅฐใใใใฏใใใใฎ็ตๆใฏในใใฌใผใใซ็พใใพใใๅญ ไพใฏ็ฌ้กใ่ฆใใๆฐใใใใจใซๆๆฆใใใใจใใใฆใใใใใ ๅญไพใใๅคงใใใชใใฏใใๅญไพใฎ่ชๅฐๅฟใฎ้ซใพใใใๆใใใใใ ใใใใใพใใใ
่ชๅฐๅฟใฏใ่ชๅใใๆใๆณจ็ฎใไธใใใใฆใฏใใใใฆๅญไพใฎไธญ ใซ่ฝ็ใใใใฎใฆใใใใใใฆใ้่ฆใชใฎใฏๆณจ็ฎใฎ่ณชใฆใใใๅ ใซๅญไพใฎใใฏใใซใใใใใใฆใใฏๅๅใจใฏ่จใใพใใใ
ไพใๆใใพใใใใๆฏ่ฆชใๅไบบ่ฆชๅญใจไธ็ทใซๅญไพใๆ ็ปใซ ้ฃใใฆ่กใใพใใใๆ ็ปใ็ตใใฃใๅพใๆฏ่ฆชใใกใฏๆ ็ปใซ ใคใใฆ่ชใใๅญไพใใกใฏไผ่ฉฑใใๅใๆฎใใใฆใใพใใๆฏ ่ฆชใฏ็ฉ็็ใซใฏๅญไพใจไธ็ทใซใใพใใใๆฐๆใกใฎไธใงใฏ้ข ใใฆใใพใใใฉใใใใฐ็ถๆณใฏ้ใฃใฆใใใงใใใใใๆฏ ่ฆชใใกใๅญไพใซๆ ็ปใฎๆๆณใๆฑใใฆใใใฐใๅญไพใใกใไผ ่ฉฑใซๅ ใใใใจใใงใใ่ฆชใฎ้ขๅฟใ่ชๅใซใๅใใฆใใใ ใจใๆใๅใใใงใใใใ
็ถ่ฆชใๅญไพใในใใผใใฎ็ทด็ฟใซ้ฃใใฆ่กใใพใใใๅญไพใ ็ทด็ฟใใใฎใ่ฆใฆใใ้ใ็ถ่ฆชใฏไปใฎ่ฆชใใกใจใใใในใ ใซ่ใใ่ชๆใซ้งใใใพใใใใใใ็ทด็ฟไธญใฎๅญไพใฏ่ฆชใ ่ชๅใฎๅงฟใ่ฆใฆใใใใฉใใใๆฐใซใใใ่ชๅใซ้ไธญใใฆ ใปใใใจๆใฃใฆใใใใจใๅฟใใฆใฏใชใใพใใใไผ่ฉฑใๆฅฝ ใใใงใใไปใฎๅคงไบบใใกใซใคใๆฐใใจใใใฆใใพใใใกใง ใใใๅคฑ็คผใซใชใใชใใใใซ่ชๅใฎๅญไพใซ้ขๅฟใๆปใใซใฏใ ไปใฎๅคงไบบใ่ชๅใฎๅญไพใซๆณจ็ฎใใใใไปๅใใใฐใใใฎใง ใใ่ฆชใฎ้ขๅฟใฎๅ จใฆใๅญไพใซ้ไธญใใใใใงใฏใใใพใใ ใใใใฃใใ็ฎใๅใใใใจใงๅญไพใฎ้กใ่ผใใใใซใชใ ใฎใฏๅใฐใใใใจใงใใtj
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